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First Date Dilemma: Do you reveal your bedtime?

210 members voted · 11 May 2026
Top answer Yes — transparency is sexy. Know what you’re getting into 51.4%
😴 Yes — transparency is sexy. Know what you’re getting into 51.4%
108 votes
🤔 Wait… is this something people actually share? Explain pls 17.6%
37 votes
🌙 Only if the convo gets that deep 12.9%
27 votes
🫣 No — mystery first, sleep schedule later 11.9%
25 votes
🔒 I keep my nights… classified 6.2%
13 votes

How men and women voted

😴 Yes — transparency is sexy. Know what you’re getting into
Men
64.8%
Women
33.3%
Other
1.9%
🤔 Wait… is this something people actually share? Explain pls
Men
48.6%
Women
51.4%
🌙 Only if the convo gets that deep
Men
81.5%
Women
18.5%
🫣 No — mystery first, sleep schedule later
Men
60.0%
Women
40.0%
🔒 I keep my nights… classified
Men
76.9%
Women
23.1%

How different age groups voted

😴 Yes — transparency is sexy. Know what you’re getting into
18–24
13.9%
25–34
23.1%
35–44
21.3%
45–54
7.4%
55–64
18.5%
65+
15.7%
🤔 Wait… is this something people actually share? Explain pls
18–24
2.7%
25–34
10.8%
35–44
35.1%
45–54
16.2%
55–64
16.2%
65+
18.9%
🌙 Only if the convo gets that deep
18–24
7.4%
25–34
7.4%
35–44
22.2%
45–54
14.8%
55–64
33.3%
65+
14.8%
🫣 No — mystery first, sleep schedule later
18–24
4.0%
25–34
8.0%
35–44
20.0%
45–54
12.0%
55–64
12.0%
65+
44.0%
🔒 I keep my nights… classified
25–34
7.7%
35–44
15.4%
45–54
15.4%
55–64
23.1%
65+
38.5%

What the results tell us

With 210 members voting, the results speak clearly. "Yes — transparency is sexy. Know what you’re getting into" was the standout choice at 51.4% — a strong majority signal that cuts across age groups and member types.

On the gender breakdown, "Yes — transparency is sexy. Know what you’re getting into" was slightly more popular among men. It's worth noting that Embrace Dating's community skews female — so women's preferences carry significant weight in shaping these results overall.

"Wait… is this something people actually share? Explain pls" came in second at 17.6% — a meaningful result that shows real diversity in how members approach this question. Dating is personal, and these results remind us that no single answer fits everyone.

Poll published 11 May 2026. 210 Embrace Dating members responded. Results reflect self-reported member demographics.

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