Community Poll

Are your actions matching what you’re looking for right? Vote & tell us why!

372 members voted · 14 April 2026
Top answer 🏗️ Yes, I’m building intentionally 32.8%
🏗️ Yes, I’m building intentionally 32.8%
122 votes
🤷 Still figuring it out 32.0%
119 votes
🎢 I’m open to both 17.5%
65 votes
🔍 I say build… but I explore 9.9%
37 votes
🌱 I’m focused on myself first 7.8%
29 votes

How men and women voted

🏗️ Yes, I’m building intentionally
Men
50.0%
Women
50.0%
🤷 Still figuring it out
Men
62.2%
Women
37.8%
🎢 I’m open to both
Men
67.7%
Women
32.3%
🔍 I say build… but I explore
Men
54.1%
Women
45.9%
🌱 I’m focused on myself first
Men
58.6%
Women
41.4%

How different age groups voted

🏗️ Yes, I’m building intentionally
18–24
9.0%
25–34
17.2%
35–44
24.6%
45–54
18.0%
55–64
21.3%
65+
9.8%
🤷 Still figuring it out
18–24
5.9%
25–34
4.2%
35–44
15.1%
45–54
16.8%
55–64
21.8%
65+
36.1%
🎢 I’m open to both
18–24
1.5%
25–34
9.2%
35–44
24.6%
45–54
12.3%
55–64
26.2%
65+
26.2%
🔍 I say build… but I explore
18–24
5.4%
25–34
16.2%
35–44
16.2%
45–54
13.5%
55–64
24.3%
65+
24.3%
🌱 I’m focused on myself first
25–34
20.7%
35–44
27.6%
45–54
17.2%
55–64
13.8%
65+
20.7%

What the results tell us

With 372 members voting, the results speak clearly. "🏗️ Yes, I’m building intentionally" was the standout choice at 32.8% — a strong majority signal that cuts across age groups and member types.

On the gender breakdown, "🏗️ Yes, I’m building intentionally" was popular across genders. It's worth noting that Embrace Dating's community skews female — so women's preferences carry significant weight in shaping these results overall.

"🤷 Still figuring it out" came in second at 32.0% — a meaningful result that shows real diversity in how members approach this question. Dating is personal, and these results remind us that no single answer fits everyone.

Poll published 14 April 2026. 372 Embrace Dating members responded. Results reflect self-reported member demographics.

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